Not every woman is patient

Before the advent of mobile phones and video calls, a girl got married. Her husband had been living in Saudi Arabia for many years for work. This time, when he came home on holiday, he got married and spent a month with his wife. Went back The girl was very sad and upset for a few days, corresponding with her husband and sometimes talking on the telephone. He was survived by his parents, some unmarried younger siblings, and an older brother with married children, and most of the responsibility of the house fell on his wife. Now the girl was also asked to lend a hand and support her in her responsibilities. Now she began to accompany her brother-in-law in such a way that she would make breakfast for her brother-in-law at breakfast time, prepare her lunch with enthusiasm, prepare children’s lunch boxes and take hot water to the bathroom for her brother-in-law. She took a towel, ironed her clothes and then took the responsibility of washing. If she fell ill while cooking the food of her choice, she would take care of it and serve it in the same way.

In the beginning, Jethani was very happy that at least her husband’s workload was lightened. But at the same time, she began to feel her husband’s interest and attachment to this girl and continued to ignore him as her delusion. Even in the neighborhood, the prophecies started, then his ears were pricked up, but now it was too late. She started talking bitterly to her husband because she was more interested in her sister-in-law’s work than his wife and he could not hear anything against her. One day the couple got into a fight over this and the matter escalated to the point that he divorced her three times. Twelve years had passed since the marriage and they had four children and the girl had been married in this house for only six months. Later, all the guilt was attributed to her brother-in-law who had handed over her husband to her full time for her temporary rest. And the girl was found innocent and her husband was pleased with her.

And about the same time, another girl got married to a young man working in Saudi Arabia. He also went back to live with his wife for a month. In addition to the elderly parents, there was a younger brother in the house. The rest of the siblings were married and had their own home bar and all the responsibilities of the house fell right on this girl. In addition to household chores, hospitality gradually became responsible for bringing in self-medication and paying their bills on time with utility bills. But Dewar was his helper in every issue. The two began to get along well and had a great time. It was only six months ago that one day a girl said to her husband on the phone, “I am married to you, but I am living with your brother, so why should I marry the one with whom I am married?” I live you divorce me And the husband got angry and called her three divorces on the phone. Shortly after the story, this girl of ‘iddah got married to her brother-in-law and she managed to convince herself in the same house as a responsible and sensible daughter-in-law. Not every woman trades at a loss, then who is in deficit